Who Cheats More, Men or Women? A Private Investigator Reveals the Truth

The question of who cheats more — men or women — remains one of the most debated topics in modern relationships. A private investigator with over 15 years of experience handling marital investigations has shared insights from hundreds of real-life cases, revealing that the truth is more complex than many assume.

According to him, men are still more frequently involved in confirmed infidelity cases, particularly between the ages of 30 and 50. “In many of the cases I’ve investigated, men tend to seek affairs for excitement, validation, or attention they feel is missing in their marriage,” he explains.

However, the investigator notes that the number of women engaging in infidelity has significantly increased in recent years. “Women are more likely to form an emotional connection before it becomes physical. In many cases, it starts when they feel emotionally neglected,” he says.

One of his most striking cases involved a husband who hired him to prove his wife was cheating — only for the investigation to uncover that the husband himself was having a secret affair. “Sometimes suspicion comes from guilt,” the investigator adds.

He also emphasizes that social media and smartphones have made secret relationships easier than ever. “Today, infidelity often begins with an innocent message and gradually turns into something much deeper,” he explains.

In conclusion, the investigator believes there is no simple answer to who cheats more. “Infidelity doesn’t belong to one gender. It belongs to circumstances. When communication and emotional closeness fade, the risk increases for both partners,” he concludes.